Dear Guard your Eyes,
 
My husband is 30 years old and we've been married for 8 years. For the last 7 years (perhaps even longer, I don’t know) he's been a Lust addict. I've caught him with newspapers, with a magazine, on the internet, masturbating, etc. There have been many ups and downs over the years (mostly downs) and I'm slowly reaching a point of despair. I am so full of questions and doubts, and most of all I have no-one to talk to. We recently started therapy with someone local …

One of our goals on GuardYourEyes is to help people "Hit bottom while still on top". Don't wait for the addiction to destroy your life!
 
Please read through some of these stories to see where the addiction leads to, and get the help you need now – while you’re still on top, no matter what it takes!
 
1) Where it All Leads
 
2) Serial Killers
 
3) Women tell of their husband’s (or ex-husband’s) addiction
 
4) The Typical Suffering of the Wife of an Addict
 
5) A Typical e-mail to GYE
 
6) Dov’s Story
 

 
One of …

A famous serial killer, Ted Bundy, blames porn-addiction on his actions:
 
In the Dobson interview before his execution, Bundy said that violent pornography played a major role in his sex crimes. According to Bundy, as a young boy he found "outside the home again, in the local grocery store, in a local drug store, the soft core pornography that people called soft core… And from time to time we would come across pornographic books of a harder nature…." Bundy said, "It happened in stages, gradually. My experience with pornography generally, but with …

The following story was taken from LazerBeams blog of Rav Lazer Brody. Let it be a warning for all of us to HIT BOTTOM while still ON TOP (see chizuk e-mail #441 on this page for more on this important idea).
Dear Rav Lazer,
I have no one else to turn to regarding my present situation. I am in a lot of trouble and am contemplating suicide as a way out.  I write to you from a position of disgust with myself and potential humiliation for my lovely wife and three daughters.
I was …