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Got Rid of FaceBook!

18 January 2010 3 Comments

After a stumble with Facebook, "Momo" posted on the forum:

I need to learn from my fall, and this past fall has taught me that I have to cancel my Facebook account. It's really a waste of time anyway. The only reason I've been keeping the account is to see what's new in my friend's lives, see new photos of their kids, and have all of their email addresses in one spot. So I'll be "out of the loop". I'll miss someone's birthday. I'll miss a cute photo of a kid smiling. It's NOT worth it if it's going to trigger me to fall. I'm too sick to be on Facebook.


The next day "Momo" wrote:

Yesterday I said that I'd deactivate my Facebook account, and I did. Right before I did that, I said a prayer that with the z'chut of this action, HaShem should help everyone who's on this forum. Then, while I was doing the deactivation, the Y"H started voicing his objections "come on…". I countered by singing (in my head) a niggun really loudly. I felt very proud of myself after I did it, until I received a notice from Facebook that I can always activate my account again simply by signing in.

After searching the net, I found that you CAN request to have your account permanently deleted, and I did this too. Here's the link.

Dear Momo,

Now that we don't have the Beis Hamikdash, Hashem looks for the Korbon Tamid every day in different places… In Shamayim it was announced: "Today Momo brought a Korbon for Hashem by sacrificing FaceBook on the Mizbe'ach of his heart!"

Everyone, learn from this Tzadik! In honor of Shiva Asar Bi'Tamuz, let's delete access to Facebook, Youtube, GoogleVideo, etc..  anything that is a stumbling block for us now, or has been in the past: don't let there be breaches in our walls!

and it shall be sweeter to Hashem than oxen and cattle!"




In response to yesterday's post where "Momo" described giving up "FaceBook", we received a number of responses:

One great Ba'al Teshuvah – who has been clean now for well over a year, wrote us as follows:

The Yetzer Hara in his slimy and cunning ways, convinces so many people that Facebook is so innocent! Believe me, it is one of the worst places on the web, probably because it seems so innocent!

I personally have transgressed some of the worst Aveiros, thanks to Facebook! May Hashem have mercy on me and forgive me. May Hashem have mercy on everyone out there with a Facebook account, and give them the strength toget rid of it forever.

Same goes for mySpace and all "social" sites. The Torah forbids social mingling of the sexes. This applies 10000000% to mingling on Facebook too, and perhaps applies even more due to the anonymity involved that allows  people to sink lower and lower, rachmana li'tzlan.

Please keep harping on this, until people get the message.

Another guy wrote in response to yesterday's Chizuk e-mail:

Good for you Momo! I am also happy to let you know that I gave up my Facebook a few weeks ago. It's good to see I am not alone here. I became addicted to it, checking friends' profiles and pictures.

Now when I'm home with time to spare, I'm more likely to pick up a sefer and learn instead of wasting time on the computer on these social networking sites. 

Also, I went through my iTunes and iPod and deleted a lot of my goyishe music, including lady singers. This is something of a financial loss, since this music cost money, but I am more than confident that 'loss' is far outweighed by the eternal spiritual gains this will bring me.


  • Nnamdi said:

    Momo sounds like a character in "Facebook Addiction: The Life & Times of Social Networking Anonymous." Amazon: http://www.TheFacebookAddiction.com/links/retail/amazon Blog: http://www.icecreammelts.com/blogs/facebook-addiction More Info: http://www.TheFacebookAddiction.com

  • Eli said:

    I find it kind of ironic, Momo got rid of his facebook account and everyone is patting him on the back for it yet at the bottom of the GYE page it gives you the option to share this story on facebook.

  • Dov said:

    i also got rid of facebook a few years ago- it was a major trigger and mikshol for me. getting off it freed up my spare time to learn and be productive. getting of fb helped me stay clean for a long time. However dont get haughty that now that your off fb you are free of the y"h- he is very cunning and will find other ways to trip you. still be alert- unfortunatly after being clean for 2 years i started falling again and am now taking steps to better myself including recently addding a internnet filter to my laptop

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